Filonian wrote:Sorry to hear of your problems Ben, but very glad that things have been sorted in your favour. I can't even begin to imagine the trauma of the recent events.
Take good care of yourself and the young ones - they must come first now - and pop in as and when you can.
Graham
I echo that sentiment as well as the others Ben, good luck.
Keith
Hi Ben. I'm pleased that you now feel able to share those worries and stresses with your friends here.I know,having spoken to you during your problems, what a tough time you've been having. You definitely sounded more relieved last week than earlier.
Best wishes to you and the girls. EricT
ps hope the card arrived.Sorry it was a bit late. :
Now at the age where I know I like girls but can't remember why!
Ben,
I am so sorry to hear of the matrimonial difficulties and allegations you have suffered, it must have been a terrible time for you but now hopefully you and your children can rebuild your lives and put this all behind you.
I have great admiration for the way you have brought this out into the open as it could not have been easy to come public but this is one way of helping to get it off your chest and I am sure there are many here who are quite willing to lend an ear should you ever need it.
Wishing all the very best Ben.
With kind regards
Nigel.
I used to be an optimist but with age I am now a grumpy old pessimist.
Ben,
I feel among the priviledged that you have felt safe to share this gruelling event with us.
Strangely, when we hear of domestic troubles in the mass media, the focus always seems to be on some wrongdoing by the father.
In all cases where I've been relatively close to the situation, the mother has been the root cause.
Sincere Best Wishes to you and the children.
Thanks for sharing this story with us and please don't apologise for your absence. Your kids are a lot more important and it is good to hear that you got this sorted!
All the best.
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Ben , our thoughts are with you and yours . I can't imagine what you have gone through .
In the nicest way , they're only on loan to us for about 16 years and then they go to make their own way in the world . Hope you can now begin to enjoy those years .
I read the title, then I read your original post. I don't think you have anything to apologise for. Sounds a pretty awful experience. Glad things are getting sorted out slowly though.
EricT
